INTERVIEW WITH DR ALDO NAOURI FOR THE JERUSALEM POST INTERVIEW WITH 
INTERVIEW WITH DR NAOURI FOR THE JERUSALEM POST
" Raise your children so fascist and authoritarian , you make the Democrats, bring them
so die Democratic, you'll fascists "- Aldo Naouri
Aldo Naouri practicing medicine for children for almost forty years but it is also known for its fiber militant which puts the child - and its immediate environment-the nerve center of its concerns.
In his latest book, "Educating her children, the urgency today " (Odile Jacob), which became a bestseller within weeks, he attempts to rehabilitate the parents in their roles as educators.
the occasion of his visit to Israel, he agreed to meet Jerusalem Post.
interview with a doctor who tries to help parents exercise their profession that is
Interview by David Reinharc
- David Reinharc: The primary objective of obsessive and modernity is to never do violence to nature, the sensitivity of the child.
How did we move from a vertical relationship between parents and children to a horizontal relationship father-child big brother of colo-monitor?
- Dr. Naouri: We went through gradual processes in which one can identify two key dates: May 68 and January 75. May 68
come shake a sclerotic society. But the side effect of this generous impulse - its excesses - that have openly challenged the authority and began his practice.
" Enjoy without hindrance "," it is forbidden to forbid "the glorification of pleasure has opened the way to individualism. We went to a company surreptitiously shortage with the message: "You can not have everything" in an affluent society, "you can have it all," and you're entitled to everything. "
companies, to build, bet on neurosis. The neurotic individual is frustrated, who has not what he wants, and who bears his frustration through a mechanism psychic fantasy.
The perversion is the negative of neurosis and ignores refuses frustration. The pervert does not have the psychic mechanism that is fantasy. He considers to be entitled to everything without limits.
These perverse mechanisms have been put into orbit by May 68.
January 1975, is the control of conception: Before the Law Veil, an element of chance still existed in fertility. This triggered a pregnancy, it was precisely the provisions of the protagonists unconscious - call it desire. The fact that an element of chance or Transcendence intervene in fertility induced in this report that the child is based on otherness.
With Veil Act, this share of chance is eliminated. The willingness and confidence necessary desire. The child is made aware of any parents who become directly responsible. It is more a byproduct of sexual activity but a pure product. It will thus be thought of as a product, that is to say absolutely have to respond to the dictates of "zero defect".
For the couple who gets into this mindset, the criterion of the perfection of the child will necessarily be rooted in his own life.
The child I was back to the surface - one frustrated by her parents - and calls to reign.
The pipes look evil - we must follow the inclinations of the child, does not impose limits, etc. .- will be preferred.
- David Reinharc: "Raise your children in a fascist, authoritarian, you make the Democrats, raise them in a democratic way, you'll fascists." Your Board
he does not conflict with a company that asks the master to be a father, the father being a mother (attentive, gentle, sentimental), and now the master of being a mother?
- Dr. Naouri: The maternal dimension of the relationship to the child took precedence over everything else. On behalf of the democratic ideal, yes, we have moved from education to the reign of the boy-king, the way of seduction. Parents who are constantly opening the door to endless negotiations and arise in "partners."
The only connection that our company is able to offer our desire is an emotional connection, an emotional relationship, and this time, is denied the need for the child to have two parents, each one leaving its fair place.
We always thought that the complementarity of the mother and father in the design and become
Child was an invention of cultures and especially the macho ideology
who did not hesitate to go that far to subjugate women to men.
Such confusion has led us to create children with autocratic power, with the whims of a tyrant.
- David Reinharc: Can you explain that despite all Israel, a country at war, Israeli mothers are all focused on their children?
- Dr. Naouri: If I were Israeli, I would raise my children just like them ...
They focus on their child, want to meet every moment of his existence because they want to give him all the best advance since they know that its subsequent incorporation into the army could cost him his life.
army in Israel, then gives up the law, moral discipline, the child of his innocence, with illusory omnipotence and reframes.
- David Reinharc: Judaism advocates a kind "differentiating", generating oppositions (the sacred vs. secular, etc.)..
does he not face the tendency to "dedifferentiation" (hatred of sexual difference, generations) Our post - modernity?
- Dr. Naouri: This hatred of sexual difference and the difference is generational disaster.
Judaism illustrates the fact that the neurotic mechanisms produce stable societies.
In the Torah, Moses will search the Tables of the Law, he returned and that the episode of the golden calf. The verdict is: this generation can not enter the Promised Land because this land is made for a society based on exchange and not on individualism.
For forty years, we will re-educate the people. We are still in
This dialectic between individualism, egoism, solipsism, hedonism, self-only and the establishment of otherness.
The Jewish people, a nation of priests, is a proponent of otherness: the Jews must strive to achieve the project designed for them to induce other nations to join this project.
But this project is against the natural tendency of individuals and spontaneous, hence the hatred of this company.
- David Reinharc: You take the Jewish concept of tikkun (repair) saying what given to child, from conception, status "remedial" in the history of his parents. (See "A place for the father").
- Dr. Naouri: There are parental attitudes are indeed cannibals. It has a propensity to repair his own history by the child who comes.
If we take that view of man, regarded by Judaism as imperfect because of his instincts, the human lives that registration of "being in time" after which, from generation to generation, through observance of the 613 commandments, it may reach a certain level of sophistication. However, since everyone has free will, it is therefore faced with the common alternative of the reality principle and pleasure principle.
And it is true that this concept is so important in Judaism found within the same language, an anagram of tiqoun in the person of "very small" (tinoq).
But this being so, this propensity of the father and mother want her child to his service in its exclusive status as a "remedial" - and "separator" - may give the child a course, if we do not impose this remedy as a categorical imperative ...
- David Reinharc: Master or father have to wrest the child from the clutches of the deadly repetition of Time to raise?
- Dr. Naouri: Until the early twentieth, we thought things in the kingdom of life.
It seems that life has lost its status for many to Auschwitz. So today, it is perverse to think that back in the foreground, emphasizing the reign of death.
What would make every living survivor.
response, the Jewish message: "You shall choose life" is experienced as unbearable.
Fathers and Mothers (Odile Jacob, 2004),
A place for the father (Seuil, 1985)
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